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Year Of The Yo-Yo

9/10/2014

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Vietnamese-Japanese Teaching Style

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My roomie Hong’s Japanese is excellent, and she has been a Japanese teacher in the past. One night this week, she had her sister on speakerphone and was teaching her Japanese using my grammar book. Her sister was having trouble understanding the same grammar points I wasn’t getting 4 months ago.

I understood only the Japanese parts of the conversation/session; the Vietnamese explanations were totally beyond me. However, because they were using the same book I did, I recognized many of the examples she was using to teach her sister the concepts, and which common errors she was correcting, even though it was happening in Vietnamese.

The book she used is the green Minna No Nihongo (Japanese For Everyone) book pictured above! The green book is in Japanese only, but there are many versions of the yellow companion “explanations” book in students’ native languages, English in my case.

Kanji Power! (漢字の力)

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We got a bunch of new students recently and they shuffled some of our classes around. My friend April and I got bounced up a level in Kanji. Woo hoo! I am excited and a little bit intimidated, but both of us are studying hard to catch up with the students in the level ahead of us, and learning as much as we can.

I continue to thoroughly enjoy the Kanji, even as I start my preparations for leaving Japan. I expected my interest would wane as I got ready for my next step, but apparently my brain has decided it needs to soak up as much Kanji as it can while I have the huge benefit of being surrounded by Kanji all day every day. I’m not going to argue, especially not when I enjoy learning it so much.

My friend Anastasia traded Kanji books with me before she left for Russia, and signed the book in Roman and Cyrillic at my request. Both of our books have English, but hers also had Spanish and Portuguese explanations, and sometimes they help me more than the English. Plus it’s neat to just be able to see the same things explained in different ways by different translators. Plus it reminds me of Anastasia and makes me happy.

Breakfast Of Champions - West Vs East

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One morning, I chopped and fried up some bitter melon (AKA bitter gourd, aka goya/ゴーヤー) to put on rice and season with soy sauce for breakfast. It’s one of my favorites; I eat it at least 3x per week. Bitter gourd is, well, bitter, and most people don’t like it. I enjoy healthy things, though, and the taste has grown on me since I moved here. I had Okinawan jasmine tea (さんぴん茶) to drink with it, as I usually do.

My Vietnamese roommate wandered into the kitchen, her eyes less than halfway open, and sat down with her breakfast. She had two slices of white bread slathered with butter and strawberry jam, washed down with cold milk.

We looked at each others’ breakfasts and laughed, wondering if we should trade. My roomie hates bitter melon, though, and I am not a fan of white bread, so we went back to munching our own respective breakfast, contented but amused.

Pushing The Needle Too Far

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When I read that to “make it” in the blogging world, you have to have your own voice, and talk about things that make you uncomfortable, I did just that. However, I have a tendency to overdo situations like that, and I overdid it.

I posted a super-intense blog on depression on my professional blog at HealthyNP. It went over like a lead balloon. I lost a number of readers due to it and alienated some others. I feel kind of dumb about it, too, because I pushed myself incredibly hard to share (read: overshare) what I did on the post.

After getting the negative feedback, I neutered the post and took out the graphic parts. It kind of looks sad now, and I’ve been upset at myself about making the mistake. However, it’s a lesson learned, and I’ll move forward from here.

Stupid Foreigner Rudeness (バカ外人のしつれいします)

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Speaking of depression, my roommate sat me down one night and for 2 hours explained the exceedingly rude things I had been doing for the past 5 months. My own culture is so alien to many Asians that some of our values are completely opposite, and the “rudeness” is simply impossible to avoid.

Other things, however, I wish I had known earlier, because they’re easy fixes. For example, from now on when eating with Vietnamese folks I will take only a few bites’ worth of food at a time from the serving plate, and never eat the last morsel.

The conversation was definitely a nice big smack to my ego, but overall it was a relief, because now I have some easily-actionable advice to take from it, and also it helped clear the air between us.

This conversation came about because I had done three super-rude things in a row, two days in a row. I knew about one of them, and already felt sufficiently bad about that one, because I really did just plain screw up. But I had no idea about the other two issues, so the conversation really helped restore our relationship in the face of my “oopsies."

Makeup Or: Making Up

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Speaking of making up, several people close to me had been fighting for weeks, and I was feeling super stressed because of it. Neither of them put me in the middle, but because I’m always willing to listen nonjudgmentally to anyone in need, I was definitely hearing both sides at length.

They made up the same day my roommate made up with me, and I learned how to be less of a “stupid foreigner” in Asia. I noticed at the end of the day, after all the various “makeup” sessions, I had started humming and whistling again, my mood significantly improved. Gravy.

Terceira, Azores

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I bought my tickets for Portugal! My semester ends in a few short weeks, and I am off to the Azores immediately thereafter. Anticipating this, I started learning about “travel hacking” a couple of months ago, and used the tricks that I had learned to plan a 10,500 mile journey from Okinawa to Terceira, a small island in the Azores, for under $1,000.

I also had a bunch of hotel reward points from my novice foray into travel hacking, and was able to get hotels for all 5 nights of the journey for $41. I’m pretty excited about it, since learning these travel hacking tips will allow me to finance my travel addiction, err I mean passion, in the future.

This journey to visit family in the Azores has been 2 years in the making, and I am super excited to see everyone!! I’m not going to lie; I’m also excited about actually having wifi at home! It’s the little things.

Year (Week) Of The Yo-Yo

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My mood has been yo-yoing all over the place this week with all the happenings. I’m especially sad to be leaving Okinawa so soon; I can’t believe I have been here for 6 months already! I have so many special friendships and memories from this time that I will cherish forever.

I’m excited for my next adventure, too, though, so I’ll keep trucking along...

Until next week,

Sam
3 Comments
Rima
9/11/2014 08:29:09 pm

On "Pushing The Needle too Far" - I can't believe you lost readers on that! I mean, I so related to it. sharing personal feelings to the world takes guts, my friend, and you had that. You told your story, and if the truth made people leave you, I feel it was worth it.

Apologies if I sound rude to anyone, but at the end, human emotions are all the same,everywhere. Being personal is never, and can never be bad. I fit was so, there would not have been a genre of literature called autobiography.

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Samantha
9/11/2014 09:23:47 pm

Thanks for your vote of support, Rima. I am glad to hear that you were able to relate to it, and I will continue to post things that make me uncomfortable in the hopes that others can benefit from sharing my experience.

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Athena link
11/16/2014 01:12:31 pm

I'm glad your friend finally gave you the 411 on her culture after letting you flounder for 5 months.

Ditto on Rima's comment about Pushing The Needle Too Far.

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